THE VELVET ROPE QUIZ · FREE · 2 MINUTES

Why can't I find someone who matches my energy?

Maybe there really are no good ones left. Or maybe a velvet rope went up after the last hurt, and it's turning people away before they get a chance. Ten quick questions will show you which.

What you get

  • Your result: the meaning you make most often, and why it makes sense.
  • A one-page worksheet to catch it in the moment.
  • Three short emails from me this week.
Suman Smith, smiling, in a pink jacket and a felt hat

I'm Suman Smith. I said no to Oprah at 24, got banned from a dating app at 50, and married my Grade 3 crush at 54. I wrote Stop Cock-Blocking Your Dating Life about everything in between.

"Asks the right questions to help you identify how and where you may have cock blocked your love life."Traci Myles, Vancouver, BC